One
of the most sensitive times in people's lives is the loss of a
loved one. Despite our Christian belief in the resurrection of
the dead and life everlasting purchased for us by Christ and
promised to us in baptism when we are given life in Christ's own
death and resurrection, the physical reality is that of final
separation from a loved one and an irreversible loss.
When someone dies, those family and
friends left behind all grieve in different ways. Here at SS.
Peter and Paul, care is taken to perceive the extent of grief of
family members, which varies with the circumstances of death:
some families may be overwhelmed and not be able or willing to
plan the funeral, some use it as a form of grieving, others use
it as a way of honoring the deceased. There is no right or wrong
here and the priests and liturgists are here to assist all
families with their grieving process.
Those who choose to be involved in the
planning of the funeral liturgy receive a packet, called "Through
Death to Life", a hymnal, and a liturgy outline sheet. The
family then meets with the liturgist to plan the funeral
liturgy. For more details on the funeral liturgy, click
here.
The funeral home you have chosen will
work with you and the parish to schedule your funeral liturgy.
You may also use the Ministry Center Social Hall for a funeral
luncheon if it is available on the day of your service. Funeral
luncheon's at SS. Peter & Paul are catered and volunteers from
our parish are called to serve the luncheon for you. You are
responsible for the cost of the food.
For more information or if
you would like to plan a funeral liturgy or memorial service, please
call the Parish office at 630-355-1081.